My Woman, How will I ever find you?

  You know it always makes me wonder why men would always go to the trouble of finding a woman. A friend once asks me for an advice but by the look of things I could never answer him. Do you want know what that question was? How do you meet a woman? Yes, well as you can see I couldn’t answer because even I don’t know how.

            How can guys meet women without having to go through much trouble? It seems some guys are looking for a quick fix. Well I must admit I know some who likes that idea. After all, who wants to work? Some men want to take things easy and lead a nice, stress-free life.

            For the guys who have been asking the question, “How to meet woman?” This article will show you some rudimentary steps in meeting a woman. It will also tackle on the simple approaches in meeting women.

            Gentlemen, I take you on a tour of some approaches that are foolproof. These approaches to women will leave you in their good graces. Here are as follows;

 To meet a woman through Social Circles

A little secret a guy may not be aware of is that some tend to meet women from their own

Social Circles, especially if they want to meet that right woman. For example, let’s say you have a cousin that has a female coworker. One Friday night dinner she was invited to join the family. She’s introduced to everyone, it hit off quite well, and before you know it your cousin’s coworker and you are an item.

            It’s as simple as that. Your wondering how it happened, look;

You=Cousin= Female coworker

You meet a woman through people you know! It’s the easiest there is, because if your friends with people they know, you must be a cool guy and that my gentlemen friend gives you a tones of social graces.

The Cold Approaches

This is the type of approaches that would be problematic to guys without confidence. In here you are trying to meet women you have no prior relationship with. This is why meeting women in these environments is harder, because when you meet women they go through a process of determining if you’re a creep or not, if you’re cool or not, and if you’re someone they want to meet.

This takes a lot of finesse. Let’s not forget a guys oozing confidence would do the job. It will also require you to be a little outgoing and aggressive especially if you don’t have an active social circle.

Now my gentlemen friend we are done with the approaches, it’s time we go to the basic step in meeting a woman. Here are some that would help you or better yet polish some of the techniques you already have in use.

1.      Develop the Intent and Belief

What is Intent? It’s your goal. Don’t be afraid to set your sights high. How would you develop it? Simply affirm it in your mind. Think about it. Agree with it. Have the confidence that you’re going to do it.

What is Belief? The Belief follows the Intent. The Belief is more develop by application. As you meet more and more women, this belief will be cemented in to your head, allowing you to achieve more and more success in your endeavors.

2.      Get a sense of style but don’t go for the extreme.

Always look your best and that includes brushing your teeth clean undergarments and such. You never know when the opportunity would come up so it’s better to be ready than ruin your confidence and your chances.

3.      Find a woman to meet

The truth is women are everywhere. They are abundant. This idea of “women are everywhere” is called the Abundance Mentality, and it is crucial, not only in meeting women, but also attracting them.

So, Go. Go find a woman

4.      Observe other guys

Don’t get me wrong but you guys need to learn from your own kind. Some guys have everything specially women attention. So if you ever are in parties try to study them and learn from them especially in keeping women interest.

5.      Relax

One thing I hate about you guys is when you are persistent. Stop showing off too much of yourself. Why not try letting the woman feel like she is presenting herself to you.

6.      Rejection

Learn to accept rejection. Remember not all women would fall for your charms. Rejection is part of the game and being rejected doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. It’s just that maybe you’re not her type. Listen women have standards you know.

7.      Plan the Hunt

How to meet woman? As I have said women are everywhere so look for them. Make a full proof plan, the steps to take, and things to do. All that sort of stuff that would help you meeting her.

8.      Smile

You’ve just meet a woman. Be happy. Smiles are infectious.

9.      Make a connection.

Try and find out everything about her. Make her feel like she a treasure and all the things she’s saying means the world to you. Make her involved in the conversation.

Enjoy it. Enjoy yourself. Have a good time. This is not a job interview for a position. This is you. It’s not supposed to be so difficult.

Right!